A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend who shared a simple piece of wisdom that has revolutionised conversation with my daughter.
Like all parents, I have spent many hours teaching my children new skills. From how to hold their knife and fork or use the potty as toddlers to managing money and staying safe as teens and young adults. “Life lectures” as I called them, have featured in countless conversations on the way to school or around the dinner table at home. My mission (dutifully accepted) was to download all I knew to protect my children and help them avoid the road bumps that tripped me up.
But here’s the thing. There comes a point when children no longer want advice from their parents. They need to figure things out for themselves and find their own way in life. Spreading their wings is how they grow and learn.
And so the habit of sharing daily lessons must be shelved in favour of something different. Something that actually works rather than persisting...